Same. If you've got nothing to hide then there is no reason why your partner can't see your phone. In fact, there would be no reason to ask to see the phone!
My wife and I have access to each other's phone. I don't look at hers unless it's the only one nearby and I want information from the Web, but I don't snoop. To the best of my knowledge she doesn't snoop mine, but she could.
Female friends? I have friendly relationships with women but not "just the two of us" friends. On business travel where there was a female company rep we've gone to eat together, gone sight seeing, etc, but not each other's room for drinks.
Thankfully, I don't feel the need to snoop. That would suck.
The two terms are usually used separately, Pickmes or Pickmeishas, and Cool Wife, I lump them together because I feel genuine contempt for women who encourage other women to be doormats and grovel to their overlords.
I don’t check Mick's phone, but if I felt the need I could, and I’d be completely unapologetic about it. People who go out of their way to make a fuss about it are deeply suspicious.
I never heard of Pickme Coolwives before. Sounds like something a man came up with. My husband and I have access to each other’s devices and passwords but we don’t generally take advantage of it. We are together a lot and most of the online activity occurs within a yard of each other. We are also old, been together since 1977, and the extent of our secret lives involves stuff like who ate the last ice cream sandwich. I don’t care if he watches a ridiculous number of cute animal videos as long as he keeps the sound off. He doesn’t care if I waste an obscene amount of time playing Gardenscapes because “I like the colors” as long as I keep the sound off. As you can see, we lead perfectly normal lives, assuming normal is pretty damn dull. It was not always the case, but at this stage, I prefer dull to drama 24/7. What surprises me is the way some couples hide spending from each other. It must be nice to have the kind of cash flow that makes that an option.
Men love Coolwives, they're enablers. I don't check either, knowing I can is enough. But if my spidey senses ever tingle, I will, without a moment's hesitation because, well, why wouldn't I? ;)
Same. If you've got nothing to hide then there is no reason why your partner can't see your phone. In fact, there would be no reason to ask to see the phone!
"Pickme coolwives"? A new one on me.
My wife and I have access to each other's phone. I don't look at hers unless it's the only one nearby and I want information from the Web, but I don't snoop. To the best of my knowledge she doesn't snoop mine, but she could.
Female friends? I have friendly relationships with women but not "just the two of us" friends. On business travel where there was a female company rep we've gone to eat together, gone sight seeing, etc, but not each other's room for drinks.
Thankfully, I don't feel the need to snoop. That would suck.
The two terms are usually used separately, Pickmes or Pickmeishas, and Cool Wife, I lump them together because I feel genuine contempt for women who encourage other women to be doormats and grovel to their overlords.
I don’t check Mick's phone, but if I felt the need I could, and I’d be completely unapologetic about it. People who go out of their way to make a fuss about it are deeply suspicious.
I never heard of Pickme Coolwives before. Sounds like something a man came up with. My husband and I have access to each other’s devices and passwords but we don’t generally take advantage of it. We are together a lot and most of the online activity occurs within a yard of each other. We are also old, been together since 1977, and the extent of our secret lives involves stuff like who ate the last ice cream sandwich. I don’t care if he watches a ridiculous number of cute animal videos as long as he keeps the sound off. He doesn’t care if I waste an obscene amount of time playing Gardenscapes because “I like the colors” as long as I keep the sound off. As you can see, we lead perfectly normal lives, assuming normal is pretty damn dull. It was not always the case, but at this stage, I prefer dull to drama 24/7. What surprises me is the way some couples hide spending from each other. It must be nice to have the kind of cash flow that makes that an option.
Men love Coolwives, they're enablers. I don't check either, knowing I can is enough. But if my spidey senses ever tingle, I will, without a moment's hesitation because, well, why wouldn't I? ;)